prologue

Name: Sajeetha
life is for living, need i say more?

*loves:
the family, him, them; my friends
anything arty farty, the literary arts, theatre
dolphins
travelling, always unfolding something new
dining in places with ambience to kill for (it's a hobby.hah)
r etail therapy
all things indian
enlightening conversations
candles
angels, fairie,pixies, gnomes, smurfs(br>

*loathes:
the one who stabs u in ur back
death of dear ones
all that flies or has wings
the complications of all types of relationships
not knowing
those who try so hard to be me

red/purple crumpler bag
new urban male jersey
new birks
that oh-so-gorgeous watch from esprit
that beautiful converse bag
a white i-pod nano
that new dgital camera which screams buy-me!
the bikini from billabong
a new pair of funky spectacles
truckloads of best-selling novels
a whole new art materials collection
a new wallet that fits the enormous card collection of mine

nady,the sweetie pie
vicky, the blur sotong
charlotte,the doctor in the making
sivanes, the smart-ass cuzzin
LV, the gorgeous pearly
sarah, the clubbing chica
sujatha, the indian actress look alike
nadia ameera, the lost pri sch mate who was found
lynette, the sports fanatic
hemma, the evil twin
vanessa, popular for all the wrong reasons

express

 

Foto Decadent
 

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The perfect example of a mulit-racial family. Hee, hee! We love ya anni!! 

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Uma ka, yours truly and the gym instructor, Miss Sivan!! 

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This one I like. The cousins of Rengasamy clan. We so rock baybeh! 

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We just can't help it, can we Sivan? Hehe and oh, before u guys ask me why she's name Sivan let me fill u in a little. The name's Sivaneshwari but we're too lazy for tt. So u gettit now?  

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Finally a picture with Sivan. I love you sweetheart. Muacks!! 

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some.of.us. 

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Poor baby, he's getting cranky already. That's my bro's mum (mum's eldest sister out of 9) in blue and the other 1/4 of the clan. 

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That's my sis-in-law's family with the b'day boy - Her elder sister with husband and son, Nicholas. Her mum and dad with Keagan and Dylan. 

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The proud parents of 2 lovely kiddos - My bro and his wife. Happy family, they say.No doubts abt that though. 

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Erm.. I dunno wad's Keagan trying to do but I'm guessing he's morphing in to some dinosaur. Hehe, welcome to the kids world!! 

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The proud mother of the gorgeous boy, my lovely sister-in-law. Haha, they're both dressed in orange to kill. Nice eh? 

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Check out my sweetheart. What a pose at such a tender age.. Oooooo, I can eat him alive, I swear.  

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Dylan's getting all cranky but I love him still. Taken at bro's place on Sunday - Dylan's 1st yr b'day!! Isn't he so damn adorable?  

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Just before calling it a day. Photo, courtesy of my everdearest daddy!  

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My favourite b.a.l.d.i.e. Hehehehe!  

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sajeetha.punitha.anitha - the inseperables 

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Check out the hunks in swim wear and they stoooopid pose. Boys! What can I say? 

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Another one of those random shots at the bbq.  

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Some of the ladies before the bbq - 05.10.05 

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09 Oct 2005

“Happy Birthday Dylan darling!!!”

Yes, it’s our adorable nephew Dylan’s 1st year birthday and it called for a celebration!! Headed down to bro’s house around 1pm to help anni with the preparations. By the time Deepa & I got there, most of anni’s relatives were already there and there was so much of oos and aahs going around. Well, you can’t help it if the birthday boy’s a G.O.R.G.E.O.U.S little thing who has heads turning from everywhere just to catch a glimpse of that oh-so-handsome face!

By the time it was 2pm, chitti came over with her kids and then slowly, the rest of the Rengasamy clan (that’s what we call cousins from mum’s side) starting cramming the place. Hehe!! Unfortunately, mum wasn’t going to be able to make it cos dad had friends coming over for dinner that very same day and mum had to be around.

It was always great to be over at bro’s place. It’s the one place where everyone gets together for parties, occasions and reunions these days and I love every second I’m there. It helps that we’ve got a fabulous anni (sister-in-law) who never fails to enhance the quality of the gatherings by providing us with delicious food, lots of funny stories and tonnes of photo taking! She’s just like me, hee hee! We are certified photoholics!!

The birthday boy got a little cranky and started crying towards the start of the evening. Guess all the attention got onto him. Heh! And well, these days there is a remarkable change in Keagan. He’s no longer that mischievous and even sits down to listen to you if you’ve got something to say. All part of growing up, I suppose. He’s only 4 but the amount of knowledge that he possess is amazing and not forgetting he’s too a gorgeous young thing!

I love these boys and one day I hope to have kids like these of my own. The cute way Keagan calls me ‘atthai’ and Sivan ‘chitti’ and Kumaran ‘mama’ makes me giggle and he can actually remember the different terms for every individual! Impressive! He’s just so darn adorable la. If I start, then I’ll never stop!!

Catching up with Uma ka has always been fun. She’s a clown despite being 35 and that makes her all the more special. All my cousins are special actually. Senthil anna, Sivan, Kumaran, Raj anna, Uma ka, Latha ka, Kala ka, Lekshmi, Karthik, Saras and the remaining 11. We have 22 cousins on mum’s side. Mum has got 8 siblings!! Hee!

Sivan the princess came just when the cake was abt to be cut. She’s a busy lady as we all know but it’s really thoughtful of her to come down despite the hectic schedule. Now u know why u mean so much to me? For all these reasons and more… I am so glad I got to see you yesterday. I love you sweetheart!! Muacks!!

The night ended pleasantly with Guna’s call. He’s doing well and it was good to hear from him. He’ll be out on the 22nd/23rd and I can’t wait to catch up with him. Miss that pandi, really.

Oh well, so much for a beautiful Sunday. Hope ya sunny Sunday was just as great as mine. Till later, tata!

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08-10-05

The whole of Saturday was non-productive and I was suffering from absolute boredom. Having nothing else to do, I decided to pick on random blogs to read and that’s when I came across Sivan’s blog.

There was a little section dedicated to me - Sajeetha, I know we're both busy, but that hasn’t stopped me from constantly thinkin of you!I miss you like hell! I dunno why, but whenever I'm down, thinkin of you comforts me in a way.So thank you for that.-smile-

I was so.very.touched by that small yet very sincere message and went all quiet for a while. I was ashamed. Ashamed of myself for not being there for her when she needed me. That’s when it hit me; I’d been so absorbed in my own life, I’d neglected the feelings of others who love and need my love in return. How selfish had I been?

Sivan, no matter how busy always manages to drop me a tag or sms to show that she cares. She’s always letting me know that I’m on her mind and that she misses me. And what do I do for her? Hardly have any time for her. And it doesn’t stop with her. The list continues with Kumaran, Raj anna, Thana, Radhiyah, Diyana, Rosenna, Xia, Eunice, Shikin.. some of the important few in my life I’ve constantly failed to keep in touch with.

I’m not the only one who’s busy. These people are too, some even more than the rest yet if they’ve got the initiative to stop and think about me, why couldn’t I have done the same thing? Mere complacency? Taken for granted?

Only now do I realize that friendships, just like love need constant care, concern and lots of keeping in touch. It needs a lot of tender, loving care just like how plants need air, water and sunlight to survive. My ties with my friends and family are in a dire need for renewal, reinforcement. I’m going to be more committed and it shall start from NOW!

For those of you whom I’ve unintentionally disappeared from your life, my sincere apologies. I’m never too busy for you, really. I’m sorry for being a bad friend/cousin but within this imperfection lies a heart that treasures you perfectly. And Sivan, tom @ Dylan’s place I owe you huge hug and a kiss. I love you, little one. Heaps. I’m sorry I wasn’t there when u needed me and u had to think of me to make your worries go away. I wish I cld have done more. I promise to make it up to you…

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The beautiful judge escorts for tt day - Agatha, me, Mishalini & Manjula. 

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I love taking pictures with this boy cos he ALWAYS finds me to take one with him. I don't have to be the one asking him. Sweetie pie eh? Prem & yours truly. 

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Poor, exhausted Elbina & me right after the show! 

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The Guys In Black with me of course - Erhem, the rose among the thorns (Puvain, Murgesh & Naren). Hee, hee!. 

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SIM's ICS president Satheeish & me! Haha, nono I'm not in SIM's ICS. No doubts abt tt. He's a friend of mine, so yeah. He's cute, no? 

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Khomi & Me at 'Aarathanaa Dance Semis' on Oct 1st. Yesh, very delayed photographs. Sorry abt tt yeah? Oh & that is irritating Nishalan & Joe Blacks's childish behaviour clearly expressed behind! Umpf! Idiots, they spoilt the pic & Junaidah was an even bigger cuckoo who went ahead & took e pic. Aiyoh! 

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