prologue

Name: Sajeetha
life is for living, need i say more?

*loves:
the family, him, them; my friends
anything arty farty, the literary arts, theatre
dolphins
travelling, always unfolding something new
dining in places with ambience to kill for (it's a hobby.hah)
r etail therapy
all things indian
enlightening conversations
candles
angels, fairie,pixies, gnomes, smurfs(br>

*loathes:
the one who stabs u in ur back
death of dear ones
all that flies or has wings
the complications of all types of relationships
not knowing
those who try so hard to be me

red/purple crumpler bag
new urban male jersey
new birks
that oh-so-gorgeous watch from esprit
that beautiful converse bag
a white i-pod nano
that new dgital camera which screams buy-me!
the bikini from billabong
a new pair of funky spectacles
truckloads of best-selling novels
a whole new art materials collection
a new wallet that fits the enormous card collection of mine

nady,the sweetie pie
vicky, the blur sotong
charlotte,the doctor in the making
sivanes, the smart-ass cuzzin
LV, the gorgeous pearly
sarah, the clubbing chica
sujatha, the indian actress look alike
nadia ameera, the lost pri sch mate who was found
lynette, the sports fanatic
hemma, the evil twin
vanessa, popular for all the wrong reasons

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An incident which I heard from someone last night prompted me to type this entry. You guys heard of FALSE MODESTY? Perhaps you know people who extract compliments from others using reverse psychology? The conversation goes this way:

Ur friend says: I'm a hopeless piano player.
So you say : Nope, I think you're great.
Ur friend says: Are u crazy? I make lots of mistakes.
So you say : It sounds good to me.
Ur friend says: You're just being nice.
So you say : No, I really mean it. You're fantastic!
Ur friend says: Thanks but I really feel I'm terrible.. and the damned conversation goes on.

Isn't it exasperating? We owe it to ourselves to end these ridiculous conversations as quickly as possible, and start talking abt something more sensible! Exceptional people don't use false modesty tricks. They don't go fishing for compliments and accept compliments given gracefully when they are given.
So the next time you come across such people and recognise their pattern, do yourself a favour won't you? Don't bother complimenting. Instead, just turn ard and say - Yea, YOU're right. You suck at piano. Why do you even bother taking it up. I think that'll make them feel better! *rolls eyes*

I hope whoever's supposed to read this entry chances upon my blog and feels a prick in her heart with what I have to say. Get a life, won't you?

Saturday, July 09, 2005
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